HE chose to have an affair not you. Do not blame yourself for his lack of morals. You ARE a strong woman and deserve to be loved by someone unconditionally.

Get Divorce Rememedy and go right into the Last Resort Technique. You have to show your husband that you can survive without him. YOU CAN DO THIS... Im in the same boat.

Also, go to your Dr. and get on some anti-depressants. They will definately help once they kick in. Mine just did.

No more begging, pleading, pursuing, asking questions, having your daughter spy on him. I know its hard but trust me, you can do it.

I was in your shoes less than a month ago... devastated.

You have to be strong during this time. You have to force yourself... if you have to, "fake it till you make it".


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07