Why don't you want to be right, bask in the glory of being right nothing to be ashamed of.
Because I am dealing with your life! I do not want to steer you wrong. I would hate myself forever. I am just quietly saying what I would do now, as I know what I did before was wrong. I also know that If I had of did things differently, he would be home now. I am not a "Basker in Glory" type.
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I thought about looking at the online statements, but here is where i feel and think my h is controlling, he has all the passwords to accounts. So how can i access any accounts if he is the keeper of the passwords? So i strike out on that one.
I'm struggling with this one. But only as I do not want you snooping, but I do want you protecting. Is your name on the accts? If so, then perhaps you can just sign up to them on your own and have your own password. Or you could walk into the bank and ask for a mini statement right there. ICK! Aack! This is a tough one.
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So i would not tell him that i love him, just say i cannot stop you from going, and hopefully you will use the time to clear your head
Nope. I said to tell him to have a wonderful time. Thats it. No more, no less. Let him wonder why your so aloof to his going. Hell show some excitement at his going!! Drop a few hints that you may be having a small gathering of "friends" while he is gone....then invite your parents over
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
