It's true...our sex life would work a whole lot better if my H weren't as clueless and I weren't so lazy. And you're forgetting I have to throw in some type 3 validation in there as well, like throwing a dog a bone, when I wish he could just read my mind. I'm still LD enough where a good book is a viable option, but he's HD enough ( and connected enough to me at this point) to keep it all going, and I'm HD enough not to drop the ball.