lky, I have my doubts about my WAW, however, I was lucky that I found this site before I started snooping. i can not put myself in your shoes and the last thing i want to do is tell you what you should do. What I can say is like you I would find it very very difficult to forgive. Perhaps that would be my motivation to actually get a life and seriously detach. I would need some "serious" actions on her part to overcome this. I know that is not the general consensus on this site or book. I wanted to share this with you because I think it is normal to be angry. Take a deep breath and think about whether or not she is worth all she is putting you through. If you answer yes...go read that book and DB like HELL!!!!!!!
