My Ds took me spending the night away from home better than I thought. H picked up D10 from the rink and talked to him the bare minimum if that. Not a good thing I realize because I'm sure I came off as a B. I called Ds about 8:45 and talked to both. D10 said she would call me at bedtime so I could sing her song to her which we did. I then called D15 at her bedtime.
I guess D10 had leftover pizza and D15 made some shrimp from the freezer for dinner. I did leave any instructions for dinner, but there were plenty of things to make. I decided I can't enable my H anymore by having dinner ready for them or laying everything out. He needs to start taking responsibility.
I called D15s phone in the morning to tell them to have a good day. Talked to both Ds. D10 seemed a little sad but didn't say anything about it.
I didn't talk to H when I called at night or in the morning. I wonder if he even thinks about the fact that I called Ds phone and not his. H always calls mine instead of Ds which I don't get. I don't know if it is his way of controling me or talking to me with out looking like he is talking to me. Another mystery that will never be solved.
