I found 8 signs that our relationship is toxic. 1. H is emotionally unavailable 2. H is non-reienforcing for me 3. I am overly dependent 4. H has the power to impact my feelings about myself 5. I am a chronic fixer 6. I have a fantasy that H will change or come around 7. H won't forgive or forget 8. My needs/wants are being ignored
This is bang on! J~
I'm glad I'm finally thinking straight about something. Now I need to do something about it. I have still been trying to fix H instead of me. Time to fix me and forget about H. If he wants to self-destruct, so be it, I'll survive.
