I told H last night to bring a schedule today. I won't hold my breath, that would take thought and commitment.
Why not make one and tell him "lets do this".
We do this (nights - Whoever has her that night picks her up from daycare that evening)
Mon: W Tue: W Wed: M Thu: M Fri/Sat/Sun: Alternate
We don't stick to it very strictly anymore - I had D last night even though it was W's night with it. She just happened to be at my house when she got tired
We pretty much did have a schedule of Tues. & Thurs. were his nights. I forgot last week since he was out of town and infringed on his Thurs. Then he came back so sick and didn't even say anything about the weekend until it was over. He won't put anything in writing because that would require thought and commitment. H is ready for either. I do give him a schedule each week of all of our events and try to give him a monthly. Then we agree to who does what. He did switch days w/ me this week because I have work commitments. Even on his nights I take D to skating because he won't leave work early.
