I wouldn't go black now if I were you. Although W flip flops on the OM, she consistently comes to you for validation, etc. As long as she is open to spending time w/ you and it is positive I say stay in the picture.

Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1