I don't think my sitch is *normal* in any way, however, I am 35 and H is 32. We have 3 boys under the age of 7. I probably would have been in agreement w/ your W awhile back w/ the once a month or maybe not at all, however, since the D sitch, I pretty much was into it every day. We'll see what happens when things actually go back to *normal,* however, I would say that right now I would project at least 3 or 4 times/week.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10