Is it that I've allowed my parents to do so much to help out that I feel inadequate and lazy? Am I that shallow that I have actually come to resent them for all that they've chosen to do to help me out while H is gone and now I know that I am going to have to take up the reins again and start acting the way I did right before H left which was *superwoman/mom/lover/wife/employee, etc.*?


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10