Still hopeful for some pleasant surprises

[WAS32]

It's hard to give advise when you are new to this. I am just trying to figure out things myself. But i do agree with trixi on the moving out part. She wats out then I guess she should get out. At the very least sit down and have a talk about the finances with you. My H was the one who needed out of the M so out he went. We live an hour away from each other and he is starting to complain about how much it costs to drive back and forth. Well the way i see it. He left. He took the big truck. He decided to move that far away. It's his problem.

I know that there are kids involved and it's hard to see them have to move but if you can't afford the keep the house you have to do what is necessary.

Then again, what about the friends free basement? Sounds like the best plan on the list. This way nothing drastic is done and it can give you some more time for DBing.

Anyways, this is just my opinion.