Nikki-
All I can say is that I am watching you in awe. The way your H is acting and the way you are NOT getting sucked into it- well, it's amazing. Truly!

If my H and I were sleeping in the same bed and still married, I would have a helluva time not expecting him to act the part of H.

Hopefully someday I will have your detachment.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing