Input, WH and I own business together

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Grid,

It was mid Oct, I was taking D24 &BF out to get early B-Day present for GS, he needed clothes, as we were leaving D's house W said really nasty, "Why are you following me?" Told her I'm not, she asked who are you paying to follow me? Told her I can't afford to pay someone to follow her. She claimed it must be my brother, told her how inconspicuous would a 350lb man in a pickup truck be. She told my friend that she couldn't believe i did that! I told him I swear on my fathers grave I never followed. paid someone to follow or had a family member or friend follow her.

As far as OM, I think they had problems twice or there were 2 OM. Twice she wanted to quit her job. When we went on vaca end of Aug she was going to put in 2 weeks notice when we got back. I think OM was upset she was going to Fla for 9 days with me and they had a fight. The day before we came back, she got a text or voice mail, went cold as ice to me. Got back home and suddenly loved her job again.

I never drank much around the house at all. Occasionally after cutting the grass I'd have a cold one. After the kids were older W & I would buy a bottle of wine once a week and have a glass a couple of nights. If I'm home on Christmas Eve alone I guess I'll have to raise a glass to you then drink your glass also.

I would let him give you a gift if he wants, it's a way he can stay connected to you. I don't really think he expects the three of you to be best of friends. If it causes a rift in their R, it's not your fault, he's the one giving gifts. Just my thoughts.

Don't know how my sitch will work out, sometimes just think let her go and get it over with. Try to continue DB'ing while D'd. Maybe she needs to find out the grass isn't greener.

Oh well got to go, early appt with cardiologist in the AM.

Mike