No Code... I hate to say it man but its time to lawyer up. Do not sign anything in your present condition, trust me. You can potentially be making one of the biggest mistakes in your life by not knowing your rights as a father.
Your W is only thinking of herself right now, you need to think about No Code.
I know it sucks, Im in the same boat and filing for the Big D on Wednesday to protect my D.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07