Trying to Cope, but It's Too Hard

[stacy22]

Well I wish things were better. I have some more questions. My daughter and I are coping the best way we know how to. My Husband comes by to see her, and if she crys he will yell at her. I am hurting she is hurting, and he doesn't want to deal with it. I can't keep her from crying, when she does he says things like, I'm not ever coming back, can't you get through your head I don't want this; what do you want me to do, move back in and live in the basement. I don't get it of course, and it makes me so sad, because she is sad, and then she tries to act tough when he comes over, and it's all fake. What should we do, should we tell him he needs to take some time out, and not come over for a while?