I don't know if this is covered in another thread, but I did a search and couldn't find it.

How often on average do you prefer to have sex on a monthly basis, and then how often you actually do?

I know that each week is different for all and everyones situation is different. But would like to get a feel for your preference, and reality.

Please also include your age, number of children and male or female.

I would be most happy having it every other day, so 15 times a month. My wife would be most happy having it once a month. We have 4 children, and I am 37 and she is 36. Married 14 years.
We have agreed on once a week, and if it doesn't happen for whatever reason, we wait for the next week. So on average 3 times a month. She, however, is only into it about once a month.

What about you?