I think that you are seeing positive gains in your situation. I would hold tight and be consistent. I don't think going dark would help anything. It would probably hurt things a great deal actually. It seems like your W is comfortable coming to you with issues she's having right now. If you go dark, you run the risk of losing that. It could really push her to the OM. Patience Brit. Time is your ally in this.
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008