Reading parts of the DR and other threads here trying to work things out in my head.One thing that keeps poppong up is to do what works. So I started thinking about that and came up with the emails. When he was at his low or angry we would email instead of talk. And in no time he was feeling better and wanting to see me again. So i sent him an email. I seem to be better at the DBing in an email than I do in person. maybe it's because I can stop and re-read and take a break before I send it. I haven't had any response to it yet but that doesn't mean anything. He isn't on his computer as much as I am.

So I guess we'll see if this works or not. Keep your fingers crossed for me!


Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans