Have been addressing my problems with very being very intense and controlling in the past. these behaviours and have been a major reason for the door being open to another man amongst others. I am making super progress here and continue to improve with counselling.
This is a key goal for you, and for your W, I would suspect. While you don't have to post specifics here if you're not comfortable, this is an area I would really dig into if I were you. I know I did when I was going through this, and I reaped an enormous amount of growth by doing that hard but necessary work. And I am a better person for it.
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I now help out with all parts of household chores which I never did in the past all before!! Cook,Dust, Vacuum, run errands ,drive girls everywhere,I even do bathrooms and toilets.
This is very important too. From a woman's perspective, this is a huge issue in families with two incomes.
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I am still having a very hard time not being affectionate at this time, that's a major problem for me still. I love her so much!!!
Of course you love your W very much! If you didn't, you certainly wouldn't be here! However, having said that, this is one area you really, really, really want to keep a lid on. You cannot make any moves toward your W right now. I know you miss the affection, and that might be something worth exploring more with your C. In the mean time, hands off is the rule.
However, having said that, this is one area you really, really, really want to keep a lid on. You cannot make any moves toward your W right now. I know you miss the affection, and that might be something worth exploring more with your C. In the mean time, hands off is the rule. 
