AmyC- I'm sorry to hear this, but I sure understand. I really think you've done everything you could. And you know what, I think Jeff did too! I think that there was an awful lot of damage done, for whatever reason, and whoever's 'fault' doesn't matter! Do what you need to do! You've been agreat resource for lots of people here, but that's a gift you've given, not a responsibility you have to continue. I guess I'm just saying, do what you need to do!