mrarow,

You'll have to let her take the lead on affection. Maybe while shopping ask if you can hold her hand. She still has to process the changes you have made and it will take time for her to realize they aren't temporary but permanent. Keep up with them, don't go back to the way you were. It won't happen overnight.

Mike


M 51
W 49
S26 S25
D24 D19
Married 27 yrs
T over 30
S 7/12
D-bomb 9/26