Thank you blindsided. It does help to see the support on here. Nobody IRL for me is super supportive. I mean they are...they think I ought to tell him to take a hike and don't look back. They forget I have major feelings for this guy and its not as easy as it looks. Its very cut and dry.
Those are good ideas to write things down. I know I am a decent person and a good mother. I was even a good wife. I wasn't perfect, but I stood on my head to make dh happy when he couldn't make himself happy.
I think you said you were about 11 weeks along now. Just wait until yours starts moving and you start hitting all the pregnancy milestones you should be sharing with your H. It really makes me sad. My baby was moving today and I am far enough along (26 weeks) where I can see my stomach moving. These are things that H should be sharing and seeing. In a couple of months I will be preparing for labor. So not what I wanted to go thru alone.
Tomorrow is a new day.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
