I wish she would let your D talk to you when she needed you.
There are constant reminders, constant triggers. In fact, my normal drive home from work has been changed due to construction of a bridge. Now I have to drive right by a bar that OW and my H frequented, the bar *and* the parking lot. Both times, on the way to work and on the way home. Instead of focusing on the hurt, I use it to detach from H. Make sense? When you see her old co-workers, remind yourself you aren't a part of W's mess.
