I found 8 signs that our relationship is toxic. 1. H is emotionally unavailable 2. H is non-reienforcing for me 3. I am overly dependent 4. H has the power to impact my feelings about myself 5. I am a chronic fixer 6. I have a fantasy that H will change or come around 7. H won't forgive or forget 8. My needs/wants are being ignored
This is bang on! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out