ingrid.. you reposted the exact same message later, than you did before? deliberately?
that isnt really neccessary. nor is it why i'm replying to you. I'm just replying to you, becuase no-one else has
it really sounds like you are doing great... i think the reason no-one has posted, is because they cant suggest how you could handle things better, given the situation
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle