is he too young for MLC?

[WAS32]

Well today I think he is just trying to push me away. i have talked to him a few times because he has called, and he's been quite cold. I think this is his way of doing the whole no sex thing. Anyways, I asked him to watch D4 tomorrow so I could go to my C and I got the run around. Still don't know if he is or not. I don't want to push him but he is not working and at some point he needs to take responsibility for the kids too. I did try other people first so I didn't have to ask him but they couldn't. He was kinda my last resort. This could just be his mood this week or today and it could all change again ny tomorrow.

I know he is stressing about X-mas but he made it clear that he was doing whatever I was doing on X-mas. He wanted to know what my plans were and when I said I hadn't committed to anything because I didn't want to step on his toes by being with his family if he really didn't want me there. He said that he did want me there but also said that if I wasn't there he wasn't going either. But again this could all change in an instance.

Why the heck does this have to be so confusing?

I thought I would write down what I was thinking of saying if the no sex thing came up again.

H- I want to go without sex for a month to make sure this isn't just about sex.
Me- Well I will respect your feelings on this but I do disagree with it.
H- Why do you disagree?
Me- Because you have told me how rejected you have felt when I wasn't interested in sex with you and I would like to work on healing that rejection. If we have no contact I'm afraid you will feel like I am rejecting you again.

Now I say that because i know when he does come around he will try. He will expect me to turn him down and go with this. It's the turning him down that i am scared of. I think he will feel like he was before and I am trying to make sure he doesn't.

I know that there is things wrong with this convo but my head is to muddled to see it. Help!!!!