Okay, given that I would be in relationships with men who are openly polyamorous and therefore I wouldn't be hurting any puppy dogs by not being monogamous, I could probably take care of the "just sex" and physical affection needs of about 2.5 men.
I don't know how much you've thought through that scenario, but it seems from reading this board that the first thing a wife tends to do when she acquires a lover is refuse to participate in any sexual activity whatsoever with her husband from that very day forward. She can go from once a day to zero without warning or explanation. I'm not sure what's up with that, but are you sure you wouldn't be susceptible to this remarkable shift in desire if you tried it?
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
