It's been a while since I last posted.... Here's an update.
The papers are completed. I reviewed and signed them. I also included a short letter to my W asking her to reconsider and also stated that the divorce wasn't something I wanted. She pickup the papers at my office today while I was out at a client.
It is still very painful to think about what went wrong and that she isn't willing to try to repair things. Her C says that it is important for her to "close" things. I think that a lot of C's will tell you what that think you want to hear. If you go in and say "help me move on" that's what they'll do and encourage you to do just that. Oh well.
I'm moving on... At 42 years old, I'm finding things are very different out in the single world. There are a lot of single ladies out there wanting to meet a nice guy. I want to take it slow... let myself heal. However, they are knocking on the door and seems everyone has a friend they want to introduce me to. It could be some fun times ahead...
I really appreciate all the support and information I got from this forum. The books are great too. I plan on re-reading them and not making the same mistakes in the future.
I really don't want to be divorced, but it really isn't my choice. So, the only way I can look at things is to focus on myself, get back "healthy" and view this as an opportunity.
.....Make lemon-aide out of all the lemons.
Anyone have any suggestions on how best to move on??
