This situation is ideal since he will give me first right of refusal once it is time for him to sell. And I don't have to give him any "option" money up front, so there is really no risk to me. Upon further research, I think the price he is offering to sell it to me for is fair. Not the deal of the century, but fair. Especially if I factor in that theoretically I can subdivide the parcel I will be buying. And when he brings the sewer line in, he will be putting a stub in the front portion of the property just in case it is developed.
Heh, I don't feel like I am doing well. For no apparent reason I will burst into tears. I am having to tell myself over and over that I can cry when I get home-that I need to get a grip. I miss him SO much. Almost 13 years together now. I sure hope he doesn't file until Jan. If he filed on the 16th of this month and we could be officially divorce 13 years to the day from our first kiss. *sigh*
Landlord called, has papers ready for me. I think I will go and sign stuff and then go to Linens-n-things and pick out a new bedding set. I just hope I'll be able to keep myself together. And maybe the landlord would let me get a dog in 6 months if I gave him a bigger deposit....
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
