I Was Almost A WAW....Still (Next Thread)

[Dom R]

good mornin Sandi,

Lots of things I could say, to your long reply. but I'll keep this one short.

Dom, you asked me what would make me feel better? That I should do something rather than do nothing at all. Well, a few months ago walking away from my marriage would have made me feel a whole lot better.......do you think that would have been the wise thing to do?

It wouldnt, though. it wouldnt have made you feel better in the long term. It would have given you a bit of breathing room, and destress for a while... but after you got that break.. i think you would have regretted it.

What's going to make you happier in the long term, Sandi?

• Being on your own
• Finding another man
• Being in a loving relationship with the man you married
  ?

Any one of those, is possible for you. I personally think that the 3rd one, is what will make you happiest, for the long term.
Even if you found another man, who you were "very happy with".. you could build a relationship with your husband that was just as good. Except that it would feel even better, because it was with the man you first chose to marry. Wouldnt it?


let me know when you're back from your current break, and if you'd like to talk about the other stuff then.