It's been a year since the D, I need some help

[JMC]

Tom - it sounds as if your ex may be interested. Who knows. Were I you I would try to go to dinner, not talk about getting back together etc... generally DB. I realize this is easier said than done.

If there is no OM, why not take her up?

I have someone that I hang out with but nothing more. It sure helps having someone around the house most of the time. If not I would have gone crazy a long time ago. I can't seem to think of the rest of my life alone though, but can't seem to move on.

Does this person know of your desire to get back with your ex? I also see someone casually. She is a great woman, fun to be with and a long-time friend from work. I have been very upfront with her about my interest in my ex.

I have a grownup daughter, and I try not to discuss her mother unless my D brings her up.