Trixie: Read the newcomers posts about MLC....the one entitled MLC for Dummies is good as is the Stages of MLC. I knew my H was unhappy for the past couple of years, but it always seemed like it was about his job or our house....never thought it was about us until the bomb got dropped 8/07. Read everything you can get your hands on...it does help! Come here and read the posts...it's very enlightening and helpful to connect to others who are going through the same thing! I'm sorry you are here and you are hurting!
Hugs. BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally