CVA - Have I Done Everything...No!

[Not Much Left]

Hey ladies and gents

Really debated starting a new one, decided that this stuff needs to slow down for me but also good to get it out here.

Current struggles
1. House issues - feel like I cant move on till I find the house, unfortanetly, as Sunny and Nomo have pointed out to me, I am too picky...about women and apparently houses and most likely everything else. Great, something else to work on
2. I named this Have I Done Everythin...No! because as those who have followed me, it is clearly not true. For anyone new reading, I did not implement the full LRT method, dont know if would have worked or will, just saying after 9 mos I am still in "habit" mode of being around, interacting with W blah blah blah. Again, without my own home, unlikely to change so...
3. Take WC to Xmas dinner or not? My colleagues have no problem with it so why should I? I dont know, but its bothering me.
4. Kids...homework at our house is becoming a big issue and it will only get harder apart. or will it? My W and I have really never agreed on how this stuff goes so we continue to struggle with it like this weekend. Almost a real "fight" about it..Ugh. Mostly because W was basically blaming me, and I am not taking it out of context, for not helping...no ducks back, I fought back...crap.
5. Kids...attitude - W told me S10 is giving her attitude. I asked for specifics and she says "all the time, because of what is going on..." First time she has ever aknowledged to me at least that this is having an impact and my first time seeing a bit of her realization that everything is not going to be fine.

What to do on all this. Input welcome. Just really CVA spew for the most part though.

Your pal in DBing
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