Originally Posted By: dh4320
I believe spouses that stay in this misery actually enjoy misery, that is where they are comfortable, like my spouse i think she does not know how to be loved and that i was the first person who trully loved her and she ran from it. just a thought maybe some similarities there


Not sure if you were referring to me or him?

I can assure, I do not enjoy any of this.

Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.