doing things with WAS/MLCer

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Ingrid: I am in the process of doing fun things with my MLCer. He's still in the home but there is OW. She is M and so evenings and weekends are the times I spend with my H. We go to dinner, movies, dancing. We are intimate sometimes even though he is sleeping in the basement now. It's so up and down...we'll have wonderful times and then bam....bad for days. I really do see his confusion. I don't know if it's helping or not....I feel kinda like it's keeping him on the fence which is maybe prolonging the problems, but I also feel like it's keeping him connected to me in a positive way. I feel like I am the only stability in his life and I want him to be able to find comfort in that since everything else is so up in the air!?

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