I need for this other job to come through for me. Im tired of working in the same building my W used to work in. I still see all her old friends in the hallways etc.
So hard to detach when you are constantly reminded.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
I wish she would let your D talk to you when she needed you.
There are constant reminders, constant triggers. In fact, my normal drive home from work has been changed due to construction of a bridge. Now I have to drive right by a bar that OW and my H frequented, the bar *and* the parking lot. Both times, on the way to work and on the way home. Instead of focusing on the hurt, I use it to detach from H. Make sense? When you see her old co-workers, remind yourself you aren't a part of W's mess.
As far as I know, that is the ONLY place they have ever been, in parking lots with H's car. I haven't stepped foot in it since, but have to this week. UGH
Me: Hey Her: Hey Me: Is D available? Her: SHe's playing, Ill have her call you back (click).
What the hell is that? Its like she has to demonize me... like Im the worst person in the world. I dont get where all this anger came from. Sure we argued a week ago, but damn, this is crazy.
DO you guys think she has to make me out to be the horrible person so she can justify her behaviour?
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07
