you guys are right, i just bookmarked website so i can visit it at home. i have been ignoring my self for many years. my focus has always put family first. i am guilty. i have been focusing my self more on my christian faith the last 8weeks. without God in my life i would be having a much harder time. w is like a trapped animal in our house. i believe she will move out on schedule,end of dec. part of me will welcome it. alot of tension and stress when she is at home.plus i think this is part of the waw process. she needs to miss me.she cannot when she sees me. i am a constant reminder of her unhappiness. she wants to runaway.if we did not have kids, she would already been have gone. she is in real turmoil, it is hard to see her in such pain. i wish i could alleviate it. i know it is part of the process. woog, i have been reading your sitch since your first post, your w is proceeding down the same path as my w. further distancing herself. so weird to watch the process . the longer i am embroiled in this , the more i can see how patience and gal are a must. i will prevail though. i love my wife.


m-54
w-44
children-4
bomb-sept 21 2007
t-21
m-20yrs
bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023