WAW does not want to try

[DaveJ]

You are right. No expectations if you want to stay sane. That includes no expectations on her part. You really have to give her space and time. At this point she is pretty much shut off from you and anything she doesn't like from you will pile onto the list of things she collects as evidence that she doesn't want to be with you. Don't give her the opportunity to do that. Make sure you go out and have your own time so she doesn't feel "smothered". Also, remember she's in some weird alien mode right now. Don't try to make any sense what she does or says. They will drive you nutty. Just work on yourself and where you want to go. Put any thoughts of working on the R on the back burner for a bit. If she isn't willing, you can't make her.