First, I have never said your husband was not the problem. He is 100% responsible for the problems in your marriage. But so are you.
Second, I hope that I have NEVER indicated that men just need more sex. To me it is about the DESIRE for sex, it is NOT about sex.
Third, lets turn this around. What can YOUR husband do for you that will cause you to desire him physically. THAT is what he wants to know. He will FOCUS on that if he knows WHAT it is. If he knew what turns you on, he would be a fool to NOT do that.
