I told H last night to bring a schedule today. I won't hold my breath, that would take thought and commitment.
Why not make one and tell him "lets do this".
We do this (nights - Whoever has her that night picks her up from daycare that evening)
Mon: W Tue: W Wed: M Thu: M Fri/Sat/Sun: Alternate
We don't stick to it very strictly anymore - I had D last night even though it was W's night with it. She just happened to be at my house when she got tired