I hear ya about those ornaments. Just killed my PMA for the whole day. I did hang up one that is our first X-mas together, I don't think she noticed and honestly don't care, it was for me and not her.
Those things are happening on her end also, she just chooses to ignore them because it doesn't reinforce her decision. Just like the geology law of uniformity, is that it? If it's happen over here, it's happen over there, except replace space with time.
