doing things with WAS/MLCer

[JMC]

Initially I did many things with my MLC-WAW. She moved out mid-Feb 07, but would come over on weekends to get the house ready to sell. This would involve dinner, sleep overs, intimacy...etc. This was usually her instigating. We planned our daughter's college graduation party, attended her birthday party in mid July etc. However, after we sold our house (late June), we were never again intimate.

I did some snooping, she found out and is now in a relationship with a guy she has been seeing for a year or so. My understanding is that this guy no longer has a serious girlfriend and now has time to spend with my MLC-WAW.

My suggestion would be to let your spouse come to you. If that does not happen, perhaps as a LRT do something different and meet for coffee/lunch/drinks or whatever. Of course avoid R talks and DB. I know easier said than done.

Good luck.