W texted me yesterday asking where the paperwork went, that she could play hardball if she wanted to, and that she was incredibly pissed off.
What's amazing is I had no idea what she was talking about. She totally went nuts. I told her I honestly had no clue what she was talking about. We'll, she found it all about 10 minutes later and gave me a token 'sorry'.
thus...I let her have it. I told her I didnt like being treated like this and I have never been dishonest in our relationship and I wished she'd quit looking at me as terrible for us...
When I got home, she apologized and said she had been missing some other stuff, financial info. I told her it's all in my office, I'm not hiding anything, and why would I need to take it from you? Plus, think about what just happened that you couldnt even find.
The papers she was missing were legal doc's for a legal separation. She took them over to her divorced neighbor friend last night to have her help her fill them out. this 'friend' is a terrible person. My W in August couldnt stand her and criticized her over and over in front of me and our family friends. I'm amazed she's confiding in her.
This is sort of funny. W emailed me asking what I was planning on getting the kids for xmas. I told her I was going to get my D a puppy. I am not positive I am, but I felt like 'pushing a button'...W emails me back..'oh please, please no, not now. I cant handle that right now...
Anyway...still not sure how to act with her. Do I pull back or do I try and remain friendly?
