I believe spouses that stay in this misery actually enjoy misery, that is where they are comfortable, like my spouse i think she does not know how to be loved and that i was the first person who trully loved her and she ran from it. just a thought maybe some similarities there

Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
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