Continue giving her space. Do not rush things. She is under the same roof that is a start. Validate her feelings and don't question them. It sounds like she is on the brink of wanting to commit but is still concerned. Keep working on your changes and GAL. They are more important than ever. You want to show her the kind of guy she wants to be with and can be comfortable with. Be upbeat, but don't rub it in her face if she's not feeling up to it. Continue with your life and just let her figure things out. Let her come to you with R talk when she's ready. Limbo sucks, but it can be the bridge to a better place. Hang in there.
Me: 37 H: 35 M: 6 T: 8 2 cats, 1 dog, 0 kids S: 09/10/07 D started 9/21/07 (I stalled) Piecing: 11/9/07
