Is it MLC when there is no OW?

[Trixi]

Hey all. I have noticed that the people that post in the MLC forum have a very different perspective on things. My H has been unhappy for years. In mid 2001 he decided he would stay for the kids. In 2005, I found out his plans, my thyroid condition got corrected and I have lost 70 pounds and changed back to me. H says we only got married for convenience (help raise eachothers children) but he regrets none of it and still loves me a great deal. Is in a hurry to file. But adds on that "nothing is forever" and "who knows, in a couple years we could cross paths, go out to coffee and end up together again.""Divorce isn't necessarily the end like people think."

Link to most recent thread " HERE" Probably about page 3 or 4 is the biggest developments starting Wednesday when he stated that he wanted to hurry up and get this over with.

Is this an MLC or is he just done with ME? What is my best plan of action? The MLC posts seem to suggest being "friends" with your spouse (unlike in other areas where people suggest going completely dark, LRT.)

I would sure appreciate any advice you can give.