Wow... sounds like you've really shaped up, hound!
And what you described as "we slid back a little", doesnt sound that way to me at all. It sounded like she was open with you in expressing her doubts... and you handled it in a good way. Sounds like a great step FORWARD to me!
keep doing what you're doing, guy.... and if the MC messes up the forward progress that you have seen... I say dont go to it again, 'cause sounds like you are doing way better without it, than with it
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle