I have to agree w/ Sandi on the way your W may have been brought up. Not sure how old she is, but I'm almost 36 and my parents were the same way. Sex was not a subject that was spoken of; I don't EVER remember getting *the talk* at all from my mom and they would go as far as fast forwarding through sex scenes if we were watching a movie together and that continued even when I was an adult. They were literally embarrassed about it in front of me.
I have made myself into a different person than my mom, who is the nicest, sweetest woman, but VERY naive, etc. I have no doubt though from recent talks that she wishes she could have been different about sex, etc. w/ my dad.
Have you maybe gotten any sorts of books for her to read or anything that may help her to be not so self-conscious when it comes to sex? I don't know if that would help or not if that is even what her *issue* is.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
