More later ... but for now - I'm not surprised.

She's got to see STABILITY and CONSISTENCY in you. It's too soon.

All the rules are still the same. Read the DR book and learn some of Michelle's techniques. Read 5LL and use it. Seek out God in your personal prayers.

It would be great if our W would participate, but they are not capable. Accept what she can offer you graciously and expect nothing more.

You have to do this alone. Sad, but you do.

Don't be discouraged.


Me - 43 and She -36. No kids.
Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs