ok, when you put it that way I am guilted into posting...if it's either me or a parking space - even I have priorities!
Nothing thrilling, spouse still thinks they can be friends, I still think they can't, we still argue on that point although I try to keep my mouth shut somewhat. That comes from the "does this get me closer to my goal" school of thought. Other schools say "WTF are you thinking are you out of your Fing mind? Of COURSE YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS!!! ETC"
spouse went to dinner with OW and her son Friday night. Just one big happy family I guess. Innocent I'm sure.(doesn't mean I like it) Then I went out Sat night and OW invited her to come over but since her kids weren't home and it would be just the two of them spouse said "no". A good choice but it's tough for me to give her the praise she wants for that choice. Our discussion led to a "fight" (we don't yell but it's vehement disagreeing!) and of course communication lags then. This type of argument has derailed us several times lately. Spouse is also having the devils own time at work and stress is up.
Generally things are good, except when they're bad and better except when they're worse! That is to say they stay the same and change hourly. Some of this is my fault as I have not maitained my interest in the cause. Everybody gets tired at some point.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
